Thoughts from the Blog

Crabapple Tree

Under the Crabapple Trees

The hurricane had blasted through just four days earlier, and many houses were still without electricity. A cousin’s house just up the hill had lights, so my parents walked up there to

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Memories of Father

Memories of My Dad

Sandy coloured hair streaked white, marks the maturity of yearsPiercing blue eyes twinkle like stars, full of mischief and delightTreasured thoughts, I smile as my eyes blink back the tearsFilling my

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Fatherless Father’s Day

It’s one week before Father’s Day. Those of us without our fathers feel varied emotions converging on our psyche.  “If he were alive today, he’d be 89,” I think out loud.  Would he

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The Invisible Hierarchy of Grief

For the last decade, I have been preparing myself for the BIG death; the earth-shattering, life-changing, my world will never be the same, death. The type of event that hits so

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2019-ncov outbreak concept. Cropped close up photo portrait of terrified frightened feeling bad human wearing facial mask isolated grey dark background with empty place for text

Grief in the Time of Isolation

I don’t have to tell you how difficult these past weeks have been now that we’re isolated in our homes. Without the distractions of everyday life, events and trips to plan,

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Kevin's Mother

How to Lose a Mother

Something happened to me today, more like it happened about 15 minutes ago, and I’d like to share this with others who will lose their mother.  The title of this piece

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In Grief

On Grief

I am learning to let the waves come. I let them take hold of my heart and I embrace the pain with a full surrender that makes my eyes blink back

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Rock concert

Eleven Months

Grief in the Time of COVID-19 My husband Victor died by suicide on January 11, 2019. He was 67 and we had been married for 30 years.  Victor and I first

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